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17th January, 2010: Back to Bournemouth
Spat by Soulgirl at 1:18 pm | Comment here!
I know, it’s not been long since I left my home Town but it’s been long enough. 6 weeks seems like a year!
I had quite a few birds to kill with one stone this weekend. Firstly I got my hair cut. After 6 weeks believe me it was needed! Anyone with short hair will so be with me as I type these words. Honestly, I could have plaited my hair!
Anyway… drove the 2 hours back to Bournemouth. I was early and having dropped off Lottie at her mates with £20 I needed to busy myself so hit the cinema to watch The Book Of Eli. Denzel can do NO WRONG and I really enjoyed the solitude, nachos and the film.
I never get phone calls, nor text messages. During the course of the movie I got 5 calls and 7 texts. FFS! What’s that all about? Anyway, the movie was excellent. Great orchestrated violence and a romantic twist at the end. And when I say romantic I don’t mean man/woman. I mean true romance. Watch it!
So, drove the 60 miles back Southward… stopped at my Twins and did the Pub Friday night having dropped Lottie off at her friends for a Birthday Party. Saturday morning I called my Son and picked him up at Lunchtime to take him for lunch with my Sister. I soooo love my Son. Completely non-materialistic… intelligent… and more importantly, non-conforming. He knows his own mind and is not in any way controlled by anything nor veers toward anything that most teenagers hold to gospel. Good lad and I love him to pieces!
Saturday evening found me fraternising with people from my recently defunct employment. It was my friend Debbies 40th Birthday. None of them really liked me at all at work. I was gobby but their first stop for technical information and advice…. but now they were all interested in how I was doing on my boat.
Anyway, at 10pm my Sister was waiting for me outside to whisk me off the the Railway Club. I got her to drop me off at Rachel’s and Rachel, Steve and I then drove to the Railway Club together.
I couldn’t believe the crowd that was in there. It was really really buzzing and full to bursting.
Cherry on the cake for me was seeing Jason and Liz. I took the opportunity to apologise for being such a negative angry bitch for so long. I still don’t know why I was like that but as you all know it’s gone. I’ve lost my bitching mojo. They both said I didn’t need to apologise but I did. Sometimes words come easy and you don’t mean them but for me this was an important and heartfelt message I had to convey.
It’s easy to be hard, cold and unemotional but it feels good to be warm and wholesome and to be the opposite of what I’ve been for the last 15 years or so.
After having met Rachel I don’t feel the need to be angry any more. Thank you Rachel. :)
It was a good night. Not necessarily musically but in terms of friends and acquaintances it was lovely.
So, tomorrow I head back to my boat; and I feel good for the ghosts I’ve laid to rest. Almost vilified, exonerated, pardoned if you like. When you’re wrong, admit you’re wrong. I’m glad I did.
I Clocked 3 illicit affairs, at least, going down in that room! Naughty!
Next stop Gloucester… the all-nighter at Wootten Hall. Room 2 is where I’ll be all night! Can’t wait.
Best wishes to my good friend Lindsay; hope your op goes well :)
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On January 17, 2010 at 7:09 pm
g farrington said:
January 17, 2010 at 7:09 pm
didnt think you were old enough to have a teenage boy
On January 17, 2010 at 7:39 pm
Soulgirl said:
January 17, 2010 at 7:39 pm
LOL… smarmy :D